tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-706394268101035148.post2910208401695816743..comments2023-10-15T07:57:24.527-05:00Comments on Just Juls: Who Would Choose This?Just Julshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08373348890004668952noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-706394268101035148.post-32710210063785609072009-02-14T20:25:00.000-06:002009-02-14T20:25:00.000-06:00No one would choose it, Julie, and I am sad for yo...No one would choose it, Julie, and I am sad for you. But even though it doesn't seem like it now, the sun will break through the clouds again.<BR/><BR/>I love what your friend Becky said to you. I had never thought of it from that perspective before, but it is a very wise one.Great-Granny Grandmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00984367859984906071noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-706394268101035148.post-7716461741206282009-02-14T19:06:00.000-06:002009-02-14T19:06:00.000-06:00You know I'm here for you!Love you!You know I'm here for you!<BR/>Love you!Stephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02652491287049439814noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-706394268101035148.post-87947340778681788942009-02-14T17:25:00.000-06:002009-02-14T17:25:00.000-06:00I'm sad for you.I'm sad for you.Katehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03013947479211215908noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-706394268101035148.post-57275261670507423262009-02-14T16:40:00.000-06:002009-02-14T16:40:00.000-06:00Your friend Becky is very wise. I agree with what...Your friend Becky is very wise. I agree with what she said, and I have never heard it put that way before, but it makes perfect sense. I am so sorry you have to go through this Julie, no one wants to see a dream die, but all of your dreams aren't dying, start dreaming some new fantastic ones for yourself, and think of all the new happy memories you will get the chance to create. When one door closes another opens. Make sure you look for the open doors.Donnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10494831650370783065noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-706394268101035148.post-4099287686362193202009-02-14T16:19:00.000-06:002009-02-14T16:19:00.000-06:00It is definitely a process, but, like most things ...It is definitely a process, but, like most things we grieve over, we can remember the sweet times more easily once some time has passed and the grief is not so strong. There were times I was civil just for my kids, and told them stories about their dad because it was important for them. Now I find myself remembering the better moments of my life with him occasionally and smiling at them. I can separate those times from how it all ended and all the dysfunction...it took time though. Be gentle with yourself.Halfmoon Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12050121358001735700noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-706394268101035148.post-89786064556007007022009-02-14T14:41:00.000-06:002009-02-14T14:41:00.000-06:00Certainly, no one would choose it, Julie.You are d...Certainly, no one would choose it, Julie.<BR/><BR/>You are doing great thru it all. Don't let anyone make you think otherwise. I am thankful for the "eerie peace" - Papa knows you need it. Keep wading thru it, Julie. <BR/><BR/>You, without a doubt, WILL get to the other side. And, it's beautiful there! Better days are ahead! <BR/><BR/>You are loved, and supported here, by me.Free Spirithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00942692680513002360noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-706394268101035148.post-61522989551473886282009-02-14T09:02:00.000-06:002009-02-14T09:02:00.000-06:00No one would choose this and it's sad that anyone ...No one would choose this and it's sad that anyone has to go through it. It's so VERY painful and it feels like it will never get easier...but it will.<BR/><BR/>When I think about that time in my life, it amazes me how I could have been so heartbroken. But I remember that feeling and how lost I was. It's real.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04038955626257319722noreply@blogger.com